Welcome to The Insider
A weekly note
for women who are successful at everything except feeling like it's enough.
✨ wild sparks ✨ reckless joy ✨
real life shenanigans
Every Friday you'll receive a little ❤️🔥 Soulfire in your inbox—stories, ideas, music, and invitations that remind you that life is meant to be lived.
Expect the occasional laugh, a knowing smile and maybe even one of those "hmmmm" moments.
Here's what you'll find inside:
✨ Personal Stories & Confessions
☕️ Coffee with Carla
🎶Music (it's what feelings sound like)
✨One for FUN
🎉 Invitations to gatherings, experiences & adventures
Hey, I'm Carla White
I work with women who have built great lives, checked the boxes, carried the responsibilities, and done all the things they were supposed to do—they're accomplished & extraordinary, yet still find themselves wondering why they don't feel more fulfilled, more free, or more alive.
I'm a former nurse and firefighter turned storyteller, author, edutainer, and messy perfectionist.
More importantly than any of that, I'm a woman who knows what it feels like to live a life that looks fabulous... and still feel the quiet ache that something is missing.
Burnout. Sleepless nights. Hyper-independence. The constant striving, proving, and pushing through. Showing up for everyone else while losing sight of your own dreams and desires.
Like many of the women I work with, I spent years doing what was expected of me and wondering why I still felt restless.
The answer wasn't more achievement. It was remembering who I was beneath all the roles, responsibilities, and expectations.
Today, I create experiences where women laugh more, know, love and trust themselves deeply, and create lives they love to wake up to.
Welcome. ❤️🔥